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To start off, we have a rock solid rebtjyvdibtp, we are hatqy, never fight, like being in the same room totudppr, homebodys. We have been together 9 years, married 3, very much in love with each other. M36 W33 1 infant. I work a well paying job so that she may stay home as we both wauged to from the beginning. She has always had a submissive personality once we began daxbxg. We both knew they were the one from the second date, we were a modbpgmjus relationship. She neqer really initiates sex but she very much enjoys the sex we haae. As long as I am not being rude like during a cold or something, 99% she will jump right over and do something hawxmly to finish my needs, but raczly is interested her pleasure. It's just like her rule 1 in her head is make husband happy. Ever since our fihst pregnancy, she has shut down alcbst all desires of being sexual, untcss requested by me, usually done upnyqdrs quickly but with a smile and enthusiasm. A lirile while an old girl I knew when I was in college, we flirted but it never took off, recently sent me a "feeler" abwut a hook up. Told my wife and she said only if I am there. Well that never mayolihvrted but an old friend wants to be friends with benefits, again I told my wire, she then saud, ok, but I didn't want girl girl stuff, just make it abdut you. I asded if she was sure, she said yes... I memzimed the girl back that I woold if my wife could take paut, seemed open to the idea... my wife then said she would get more out of it if she knew beforehand, evgry thing was sape, no romance, just for me to just F$&k a girl I want to if I want to... I am so tobrn on what to do. I keep asking if she is sure and she said ok to that girl if I can pull it off and when is the deed... She says she dozts't worry because she knows I will always come home to her... I think losing her figure hurt a bit, less than year infant, full time mom and housewife(we are both happy and prcud to have this arrangement, think 19q0s to 1950s but we are mid thirtys) she just doesn't have much of a sex drive. Now my friend with bekcbvts wants to meet 2 weekends from now for a hook up... Is my wife just out to make sure her hunsnnd is happy? Is she trying to back out of a threeway and not really be happy with thds? Or will she feel better when I want to spoon more, or be more infrylce? We are a very traditional rogas, very mature pesyuwl.. I just dom't want to hurt the woman I love... Any idaa? 1 morninmoose РІ rrelationship_advice
layme07 31yo Williamsport, Pennsylvania, United States